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　　我是一名普通的小学教师，1990年7月带着对未来美好的信心追求，我走上了初为人师的道路，望着孩子们天真无邪的眼睛，望着孩子们幼稚可爱的笑脸，我体会到他们的纯洁质朴，也就从那时起，我就树立了一个信念：在教育事业百花园里默默耕耘，无私奉献，以一片绿叶的精神，托起花的甜美，果的珍贵，以一片真诚的爱心托起明天的太阳。十三年来我依法执教，爱岗敬业，尽职尽责，关心爱护每一个学生。多年的教学经历使我深深体会到：教育当中充满了爱，有爱的教育才是成功的教育。

　　记得那是一个新学期星期一的早上，我和往常一样走进教室开晨会，“砰砰”一阵敲门声，打断了我的讲话，我闻声快步走出教室，在走廊里站着一位男学生和一位中年男子。我上下打量了几眼，习惯地说：“刚转来的学生吧。”我还没说完，那好象是家长的男子低声说：“不，是留级的。我想让他再学好点。”我一听是留级的二话没说就跑道到教导处找李主任，李主任说明了原因，我知道了这个学生叫耿舜。他思想品德极差，学习成绩往往是倒数;因打架斗殴，小偷小摸，时常家长告到学校，也因屡教不改，常常受到老师的谴责和批评，同学们更是不喜欢他，因此，他连降两级从五年级留到我班，(他的年龄不大)，当我了解到他的情况后就会到教室，说实话真不想要他，但是校长的批条我不能不接受，再一个是他的父亲含着眼泪恳求我：“李老师，帮帮忙，让孩子留级是叫他重新开始，我们当家长的这会一定管好他，给孩子一个改过的机会吧。”他的父亲说了很多，从他的眼神中不难看出是在求我，我为难了，这时我看见耿舜背着一个崭新的书包，耷拉着头，非常尴尬地在摆弄着自己那双稚嫩的小手，低声说了一句话“老师，我……我要改好，”说完便哭了。当时我被他们父子感动了，就把耿舜领进了教室。说实话，凡是当过班主任的都知道，宁教十个好生，也不教一个差生，因为管理不当，会带坏一部分学生。但现在既然遇上了又有什么办法。只愿自己倒霉，思想上有很大的波动。但想想教师的职责，班主任的重任，自己的追求，我决心啃这块硬骨头，我想办法去改变他，有了这种思想做指导，我便开始了一系列的工作。

　　首先用爱心滋润学生的心田，唤起上进心。因耿舜的不良习惯经常受到老师的批评，所以他对老师持有仇视态度，要想转变他，就得给他做思想工作，按一般规律，一个人更换一个新的环境，开始都想好好表现自我、我抓住时机，用滚烫的爱心去融化他，更何况他有改过的兆头，于是我便多找机会同他接触，同他拉家常，得知他父母经商卖自行车，工作非常辛苦。有时他还帮助父母作家务，得知此情况;我就在班上表扬他，说他爱劳动，以次唤起他的上进心，这样逐渐地缩短了我和他之间的距离。其次是发现闪光点唤起了学习欲。一年一度的春季运动会在我校又拉开了帐幕，我发现他的体质非常好，我对着学生说：“同学们，我们班有一个体育健将，他就是耿舜，如果不相信咱们这次运动会就叫他参加，好吗?”学生们都一致赞同。“你感不感参加比赛证明自己的实力呢?”以他那不忍输的性格一定会答应的。果然在我的说服下，他报了跳高和扔实心球两项，在比赛中出乎我和同学们的意料，他竟得了两个第一，当他拿着奖状跑到我的跟前时，他那高兴的样子简直无法形容，但我看的出此时的他尝到了成功的喜悦。回到教室，我在班上郑重其事地表扬了他，同学们也向他投去了赞许的目光，这时他真正体验到了集体对他的信任。为了鼓励他，我把自己的一些学习用品，如笔、日记本送给了他，希望他在学习上也像在运动场上那样努力拼搏，争取取得好成绩。从那以后他真地变了，学习刻苦了，作业认真了，学习有了很大的进步，现在他的学习成绩在班里中等以上。由于我始终用一颗炽热的心关心、爱护他，又经常表扬，鼓励他，同时，他的思想行为有了极大的转变，他能帮助同学们值日了，也愿意把自己的学习用品借给别人了，他还拿自己的零花钱帮助我班的特困生齐苗苗……一次偶然的机会，我发现他聪明伶俐，有一定的组织能力.我选他为值日班长，真是“沙里淘金”，我发现了人才，他把我们原先纪律松弛的班集体管理得井井有条，他成了我的得力助手。家长对孩子的进步非常高兴，感激地对我说：“李老师，太谢谢你了，你不愧是一位好老师。”是啊，想想过去的耿舜、看看现在的他，我心里有一种说不出的愉快和欣慰。今学期我不教耿舜了，他送给我一个日记本，并在本中写到：老师，我爱您!从这几个中，我知道了自己的爱之所在，这几一直激励我，使我充满力量，使我暗下决心，决不让一个孩子掉队，我要用爱去浇灌每一个幼小的心灵。

　　是的，情感教育是教育的核心，教师只有真正地思学生之所思，想学生之所想，缩短了师生距离，增进了师生沟通，才能触动孩子的心灵，提高教育的质量，从而培养出有个性，有发展，有创新的学生。

　　情Love

　　ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there have been myriads of diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries of the universe. in fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems we have confronted with .

　　however, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can clarify the meaning of “love”, neither can they deal with the various affairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us all in. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we are always entangled in it. it is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds in different people from different angels; it is a merciless net that upsets us or even tortures us to death. it is also a supreme net which almost no human can surpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe through the holes of the net should be regarded beyond commonness and vulgarity. love can bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.

　　love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey king who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mother"s pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents, grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, we"ll see no end. family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of us are determined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many don"t expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. but since it"s very difficult to know how much we should expect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge.

　　parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and they"ll even complain about their children, because they just can"t understand why their children don"t care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. nevertheless, one"s experience determines his ideology. young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. once there is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keeps them away from their parents. objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achieve success. in the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. they would complain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. the love from uncles and aunties would naturally dwindle after they have had their own children. only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they are also too old to wait for any repayment. as for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes “the poor have no friends even if they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains”. granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have run away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. another saying goes “close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldn"t go too far into it, otherwise, we"ll surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying togeth

　　er temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of common interest and understanding. how can we communicate with each other without understanding? parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support themselves. except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love become conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc..

　　no love among relatives has become a normal phenomenon which needn"t to be fussed about. what"s worse is when love is contaminated by money. sooner or later we will get hurt. the sooner we get out of this net of love, the more we can preserve beautiful memories.

　　we are not living in vacuum, and the society is formed of various kinds of people. as long as we want to live, study, or work, we have to contact, communicate and cooperate with others. those who enjoy common interests, mutual understanding, common undertakings and common benefits become friends.

　　some friends are called fair-weather friends, because they are together just for entertaining themselves by eating, drinking, and gossiping. once there"s nothing to eat and drink, their friendship is finished. some are spiritual friends who share common ambitions, pursuits and education. “they enjoy talking and laughing with the great talents and never make friends with the good-for-nothings”. the best examples would be yu boya and zhong ziqi of the ancient times who are famous not only for their lofty music but mainly for their lofty characters and mutual understanding and appreciation. they cared very little about material wealth, so their friendship is known as “gentlemen"s friendship as pure as water”. the third type of friendship belong to those who show their utter devotion to each other. they are ready not only to share weal and woe but also to die for each other, like the three brothers liu, guan and zhang in the novel romance of the three kingdoms. . we all wish to have this kind of friendship, but it"s of great difficulty for the ordinary people to be as devoted as they were.

　　fraternal love or friendship is wide-ranged and flexible. generally speaking, everyone is our friend, just as chairman mao says “our friends are all over the world”. but transcend age, sex, nationality, state and economic conditions. to them the most important is common benefit, common interest and understanding. friendship is formed during the course of studying, working and fighting. the battle companions who have survived many hazards usually enjoy long-lasting friendship.

　　however, fraternal love is not stable. being away for too a long time, losing all common benefits, friends will become estranged. once their interest has changed, they no longer understand each other, and even this would harm friendship. at all times and in all countries, many close friends and battle companions who once worked together and fought together became enemies in the end. quiet a few of the emperors in ancient china even killed those who had helped them found their dynasties. the taiping heavenly kingdom would not have failed if it hadn"t been for the contending and massacring among the those who first rose in rebellion at the beginning of the uprising. what else we need to pay attention to is that some friends, after being away from each other for too long a time, have lost so much of their original characters that when meeting again, you will feel that you are still the same as you were, while they are no longer themselves. they may have the same feeling about you, so sometimes it"s better not to meet each other again. as the chinese proverb goes “friendship can not last for three years and flowers can not stay in blossom for three months”. it"s not so easy to maintain real friendship which needs mutual understanding, tolerance and sacrifice. any kinds of harsh treatment will damage friendship.

　　amatory love has been a mystery for ages. there"s neither a criterion to judge nor a common rule to follow. nobody can tell the exact reasons why love emerges. it is not always because of beauty (the ugly doorkeeper quasimodo in the hunchback of notre dame is loved by the beautiful gypsy girl esmeralda), nor kindness (hitler also has his mistress), nor wisdom ( even the blockhead may sometimes marry a beautiful girl), nor strength (some love starts from sympathy). true love is like getting an electric shock, shaking our soul. it is a sweet dream, a kind of intoxication, indulgence, and endless passion.

　　true love doesn"t need a long time to grow up, to make clear the family tree of the other, neither does it needs the time to look ahead and behind again and again. love is not marriage, which usually starts from love, but

　　doesn"t always depend on love to maintain. long-lasting marriage can eventually turn into a kind of family love, a kind of companionship which preserves the companion but loses the passion. love is often an wink of the eye, or a smile that hints mutual understanding. in spite of the great distance between them, people may fall in love incidentally. hence the saying “a distant marriage is tied up with a mysterious thread”. love needs passion, and it can stand bumps and stumbles, ups and downs, complaints and blames. when it turns into a pool of water, especially dead water, without any billows or waves, it"s time for it to die.

　　delicacies are tasty, but eating everyday can still make one lose appetite. happiness is what everyone longs for, but too much happiness can spoil people who may not care about the happiness they already have. it"s universal to live in happiness without knowing it. the same is true with love. very few people can love the same person passionately all their lives. all love stories come to an end no matter how beautiful they are, which also demonstrate the changeability of love. what one has been chasing wildly may turn into something one wants to get rid of desperately in the end. besides, love is usually blind, especially those who fall in love at the first sight. at the very beginning, both try to demonstrate their beautiful side and cover up their weakness. fooled by the mysterious color of love, one often mistakes the weaknesses as merits. however, as time passes by, frequent contacts make one bored, and even merits become defects, and then the end of love is coming. what"s more, there are the capricious men and women who never take love seriously, leaving the devoted ones suffering alone. the saying that the devoted is always abandoned by the heartless has almost become the truth of love affairs. what we can"t neglect is that love may turn into hatred, and lovers may also become enemies. the best proof is the numerous divorces.

　　even though true love is hard to find nowadays, we still can see some true and infatuated boys and girls who readily give up their families, their parents, their studies, their careers and even their lives for love. they love so passionately, crazily and wildly that they hate anyone who is against their love, and may even harm or kill him if he insists on his objection.

　　love has magical power that can exploit people"s potential abilities, bring people"s positive factors into full play, and provide people with the courage to face trials and hardships, to go through life and death, and even to risk universal condemnation. even in the ancient feudal society, some people were courageous enough to carry on clandestine love affairs. the examples in point were the courageous ones who dared to love the concubines of the emperors or the children of their foes. love also has miraculous power which can startle the universe and move the gods by attracting the heavenly celestials coming down to earth ( the love story of the cowboy and the weaving girl ), and by turning ghosts into human ( strange tales of liao-zhai ). love can transcend age and generation (dr. sun yat-sen and madam song qingling; luxun and xu guangping). love can show contempt for all conventions and prejudices; love can heal wounds and cure diseases, and love can readjust people"s state of mind. of course, the result would be the opposite once it hurts.

　　great men yearn for true love even more than ordinary people. since the ancient times, so many heroes couldn"t help falling into the trap of love that the sex-trap has been regarded as one of the 36 stratagems in military tactics. fuchai, the king of the wu state, couldn"t be spared of this trap, and generals dongzhuo and lubu fell deeply into it while xiangyu, the king of the western chu state , bid farewell to his beloved concubine in tears. people may have to pay very high price, even their illustrious name for the love they long for even though it may last for only a very short time. nonetheless no one can tear himself away from love. people often say that their earthly affinity is not yet finished, but in fact it is the love affinity that is the most difficult to finish.

　　love is shapeless and priceless. we can blame nobody when captured by it. love can not be forced, nor can it be pretended. sympathy is not love, neither is gratitude. love must be generated from the heart, and expressed in actions. it can not be called love without passions and a deep longing from the bottom of the heart. there"s no impassable gulf between family love and fraternal love. some family love may turn into friendship. at the same time, natural barriers doesn"t exist either between fraternal love and amatory love. some friendship may develop into amatory love. the same is true with amatory love which may change into family love after a long time of mutual grinding and polishing.the closer the relationship, and the higher t

　　he expectations are, the more difficult it is to get along with each other. family love, fraternal love and amatory love are three main human feelings. if handled well, they can bring us extreme happiness, while handled improperly, will bring us great sufferings.

　　the present society is a world of dazzling money and dwindling human feeling contacts. most people hold a snobbish attitude. they only make friends with people of wealth and of high social status. just as zhen shiyen said in his expounding of the song “all good things must end” in a dream of the red mansions “while men with gold and silver by the chest, turn beggars scorned by all and dispossessed”. frankly speaking, however, if we regard money the first thing in whichever one of the three kinds of loves, it will depreciate and even become worthless.

　　love can not pretend, nor can it tolerate too much selfish motives. it is reported that an old man in jiangsu province left his million yuan heritage to his young housekeeper instead of his own children, because his own children didn"t take care of him while the young housekeeper accompanied him through his last lonely and helpless years.

　　love is easily perceivable and perceptible. flattery words may be cheatable, but true love and false feelings can easily be distinguished. if the people you love only know how to spend your money, you should be careful of them. everyone can help you spend your money if you give them the chance. never turn your love into the slave of money.

　　love should be selfless, and feelings should be sincere. we shouldn"t judge our feelings according to the distance of the relationship. everyone treasures love and nobody can fool himself or the others. a chinese saying goes: real heroes yearn even more for true love, and great men cherish tender love for their children.

　　we are the saint on earth, and should treasure our love, but we should know how much is good and where to stop. since there"s no ever-lasting banquet, nor is there an endless love story, we should take the gains and losses of love with perfect composure. there"s fragrant grass in every corner of the earth, and you can always find your love in this world.关于爱的演讲稿：永不凋谢的玫瑰2017关于爱的演讲稿（3） | 返回目录

　　在乌克兰的校园里长了一枝很大的玫瑰，同学们每天都来开心的欣赏。惊艳于这美丽而又硕大的玫瑰。谁都不舍得去摘，小心呵护着

　　一天早晨，校长苏霍姆林斯基在校园里散步。突然，她看见一个小女孩正在越过花圃的围栏尽力去摘那朵令人吃惊的玫瑰花。这时，苏霍姆林斯基立即叫住了小女孩，小女孩脸上露出惊恐的面色。这位校长看到小女孩的样子以后，不不仅没有严厉的呵斥，反而弯下腰，和颜悦色的问这个小女孩：“孩子，这么美丽的花朵，你一摘下来就会很快的枯萎的，你喜欢美丽的东西，就要懂得去好好的保护，更不能让我们喜欢的东西受到一点伤害。”

　　“校长大人，：我把这里有特大的玫瑰花的事情告诉了病重的奶奶，但奶奶就是不相信，所以我急得没有办法，想摘下来送给她看。不过你放心，奶奶看过以后我一定把花送回来，还有许多大哥哥和大姐姐们要看的!”

　　小女孩的一番回答大大出乎校长的意料之外，这个天真无邪的女孩子为了给病中的奶奶一个希望，不惜去“借”这玫瑰，他的内心深深的颤动了，他不仅没有批评这个小女孩，马上又摘了两朵大玫瑰花，对孩子说：“这一朵是奖励你的，你是一个懂得爱的孩子;这一朵是送给你妈妈的，感谢她养育了你这样的孩子。这三朵花都不要你还了，我代表学校奖励给你。”

　　小女孩高兴的捧着这三朵花，激动的连跳了几下。

　　“这下我奶奶高兴了!我可以把花一直放在她的床边了!”这声音一直飘荡在这位校长的耳鼓中……

　　这个真实的故事结局似乎出于意料之外，又合乎情理之中。是小女孩的天真成就了一个非常智慧的校长，还是一个校长成就了一个小女孩天真美丽的梦。是一个永远无法考证的话题。但有一点是那样的清晰。是“爱”铺就了花径，是爱弥漫了校园。

　　爱是桥梁，架起了师生情感沟通的绿色通道;爱是明灯，烛照了人生百态世相，荡涤横流物欲肆虐的心灵;爱是一部白库全书，诠释教师职业生涯的光辉。

　　让我们从遥远的乌克兰爱的回忆中回到身边的现实。作为一名非常年轻的教师，最近一直沉浸在李吉林老师几十年如一日笔耕不辍，潜心研究、献身教育的光辉事迹中，心灵除了震颤以外。觉得他的整个教育生涯中始终贯穿着一根红线。这就是爱。爱教育，爱同事，爱学生。师德有固定的标准，有详细的条框，但爱却无欲无私无利。正应验了中国的古话：“大爱无疆：大爱无言。”

　　我深深的体会到教师爱的哲学就是把整个心灵献身所从事的职业中去。教学是职业，是我们谋生的手段，但教学又不是职业，是教会人用爱去感恩父母，感恩学校，感恩社会、感恩祖国。

　　有人把教师比作是春蚕，吐丝结茧。春蚕到死丝方尽是教师形象的写照;有人把教师比作蜜蜂，为人类酿造甜蜜，采得百花成甘澧。但我却要说。教师既不是春蚕也不是蜜蜂。因为春蚕吐丝和蜜蜂酿蜜纯属昆虫的生理现象。而教师这个行当是爱的宣传者，爱的播撒者。他来自教育者本身心灵深处的社会责任感。始终要用一颗博爱之心传道授业解惑。

　　我认为只有明白了我们的个人行为不仅仅是生存的需要，而是感知学生的需要，社会的需要。明确了这份良知赋予我们的神圣使命感才能在自己的岗位上敬业乐业，爱岗爱生。我们才不会埋怨学生的无知和不懂事，因为他们无知不懂事，通过你的历练他们走向成熟走向成功。唯有这样你才会真正体验到“待到山花烂漫时，你在丛中笑”的幸福感。

　　爱无形，但爱心铸就的灯塔会指引我们人生前行的方向;爱无重，但当我们被周围的爱和被爱充溢时候，我们会感知到人生无限的美好;爱无声，但举手投足间，诠释着师德的真正内涵，它不是一条条枯燥的说教，他不是声嘶力竭的呼号，他不是由埋怨抱怨构建的心灵城堡，它是春风化雨的滋润，是用我们一生的精力履行的神圣诺言!

　　我有一个超级妈妈，她有个外号，叫气象局，原因是：你根本就不需要知道第二天穿什么，她就帮你想好了，我的朋友小胖，我们两个从小就会一起去上学，那个时候她已经穿上了这个白色的t恤，而我已经开始穿上一个棉袄，比她还要胖，她就站在那个楼道那等我的时候会说：“哎呀，你这是干啥呀，穿成这样丢不丢人啊!”那我只能告诉她：“对不起，你还小，你不懂，世界上有一种冷，叫：你妈觉得你冷。”

　　这是我的妈妈，后来上了大学，大学同学给她送了一个外号，叫江湖夺命连环call，为什么?我想问问你们，你们多久会跟家里人联系一次，一天一次可以吗?你们能接受吗?你在摇头好吧，一天三次呢，那肯定不能。我妈妈曾经打破过一天打9个电话的记录。每个电话的内容就是：你在哪儿呢?你吃饭了吗?你回家了吗?记得穿秋裤。

　　这就是她，但是，尽管这样，我们的关系很和谐，从来没有过特殊的矛盾。所以我的朋友就会说：“小溪你看你多幸福，家里有屋又有田，生活乐无边。”对，说这话的是我的朋友小q，她从小跟她的爸爸就是武力对决，解决问题，一个女孩子哦，有一次巅峰对决的战果就是：她的鼻梁骨里面还留着当时的骨头渣子。

　　我的另外一个朋友也会说：“小溪，你看你多好，妈妈每天还会给你送饭，都是皇家级别的待遇。”对，说这个话的是我的朋友小a，她跟她爸爸见面的次数：第一次还是短发，她第二次就已经长发及腰了。最让人觉得心酸的原因是，她爸爸送走她的时候还会特别客气地说句：“那个，慢走啊。”

　　亲爸。 对，我有一个好爸爸，特别的好，他崇尚富养女儿，怎么样姑娘们，听到这个特开心吧，富养意味着什么，我有一个大我九岁的姐姐，从小就开始学唱歌学跳舞，十二岁之前她已经把全世界各地好像都走遍了。

　　然后他也是个特别好的丈夫。那个时候九十年代吧他就会主动地给我妈妈买一件两千多块钱的那个翻毛皮的大衣，特别时尚!到现在我的妈妈每天都还在说：“你看你爸多爱我。”

　　他也会很爱我，应该，也许，大概，可能... ...原因是因为，在我三岁半的时候，我的爸爸因为是肺癌还是胃癌，我已经记不清了，他就离开了，我就只能偷偷的把他的照片然后拿到厨房里偷偷地看，这个男人怎么回事，来了又走了，他人呢，是我做错了什么吗，你知不知道，你给我带来的这个缺失，是任我后天看多少书做多少努力都填补不了的。

　　所以每当我的那些小伙伴们，他们问我：“你看怎么办，我又跟我爸吵架了，他又是这样，每天都烦，磨磨叨叨... ...”的时候，其实我心里特别想打断他们，我特别想问：“哎，你能告诉我，跟爸爸吵架顶嘴是个什么样的感觉吗?”或者说，你能告诉我：“你放学有一天你放学，你突然发现那个高大的身影在那接你的身影，那个感觉是什么样子的?”再或者你能不能给我描述一下：那双大手拉着你，又是什么样的感觉?实在不行实在不行你告诉我，叫一声爸爸的感觉是什么?

　　我站在这，说一个我以前从来都不会在众人面前说的话题，揭开我内心的一个禁区给你们，并不是想告诉你们我有多惨，相反我一点也不惨，我只是想试图去揭开你们心灵上的那层纱，想告诉你们，任我们的亲人发生了什么他们做了什么，你依旧无法停止爱他的脚步，因为你发现，这种爱是本能，它超越生死。

　　其实生活有的时候，它特别用心良苦，如果它能的话，它一定会告诉你说：“嘿，宝贝儿，你知道吗?我给你的所有的磨难、折磨，都是想在告诉你，你可以变的更好，要知道伤害你的从来都不是事情本身，而是你对事情的看法。”

　　尽管这个帅帅的男人离开了，但是，他其实依旧在，因为我妈妈每天的九个电话当中有一半是在替他打的，就像我能够接受妈妈这种肆无忌惮的爱一样。我也要给她，她缺失的爸爸的爱。

　　朋友们，在这个世界上你要知道，也只有他们，是这个世界上唯一到现在还会对你说：“过道看着点儿车啊!”他也是这个世界上唯一一个还会对你时候：“记得吃饭喝水... ...”他也是这个世界上唯一觉得你穿秋裤漂亮的人。

　　这就是他们，岁月很长，然而我们能够跟他们相处的时间太短，请你们去理解他，最后我想去说觉察。光有爱还不够，因为你必须觉察到他的创伤，他的那份痛，他的隐忍，他的敏感;请你包容他，原谅他，就像现在一样我依旧感谢这个巨帅无比的男人，谢谢他来到我的生命里，谢谢他给我这份爱的力量，让我可以传递给更多的人。

　　最后我想跟你分享每一次看到妈妈给我送完饭，离开的背影，我就想到龙应台《目送》当中的那一句话：“所谓父子，母女一场，只不过意味着，你和他们的缘份就是今生今世不断地在目送他的背影渐行渐远。你站在小路的这一端，看着他逐渐消失在小路转弯的地方，他用背影默默的告诉你：不必追。

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